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    • #27118

      Hi friends,

      If you haven’t heard Christopher’s most recent comments on love at the intro of his interview with Mr. Bregman, I highly encourage you to do so.

      I wanted to put a related question out there. If anyone has some thoughts, I’d love to hear them:

      The deep and meaningful love that Chris described is exactly how I feel about my gf of almost 6 tears. I love her deeply, her scars included. The problem is my sexual appetite with her has greatly dissipated notwithstanding the strong love and otherwise healthy relationship we have. Simply put, I no longer seem to crave sex with her (and it isn’t due to a lack of libido either). We are still very physically affectionate notwithstanding the lack of sex.

      I know many say this is the natural course of things in a long term relationship, but I’m having trouble accepting this. I also don’t want to walk away from something great to go chasing something more exciting based on lust and hormones – so I feel stuck. This woman truly is one in a million but sex is also a really important need for both of us. Are we just better off as close friends now?

      Any comments or thoughts would be appreciated.

      Thank you!

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      Amy Thieme

      You should listen to Dan Savage. Not just one episode but at least a few. He has a way of talking folks through the complexities of all type of relationships


    • #27129

      Different location, watch porn together, threesome, partner swap, gangbang, just fantasize, male or couple sextoys, webcam cybersex(is this cheating when done secretly?)…or just talk about it. But getting other people involved might complicate things or do damage to the relationship. Is it worth the risk? I don’t think so, but different things work for different people.

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