Tangentially Speaking

Organic, revealing conversation with fascinating, freaky folks.
Ever wanted to hang with a dominatrix, comedian, famous health guru, or Italian prince? Here's your chance. Tangentially Speaking is dedicated to the idea that good conversation is organic, revelatory, and free to go down unexpected paths.

136 - Aaron Alexander (Movement Medicine)

Aaron uses various methods to help people inhabit their bodies in the best way possible, from Rolfing to massage to structural realignment. Aaron has taken his work as a therapist and converted it into self-care techniques to empower others in their own bodies. He teaches workshops around the world demonstrating how to move functionally and utilize self-care tools to relieve pain and move properly. We had a good time talking in Burnside Park, where we took a break every fifteen minutes or so to allow Aaron to run around, do handstands, and other health-inducing activities. Meanwhile, I shifted my weight from one butt cheek to the other...

Aaron's site (& Part II of this conversation)

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135 - Rod Dow (Legendary Smoke Jumper)

Rod and Justin (episode 99) met years ago fighting forest fires. Justin and I drove up to Rod's amazing spread east of Mount Rainier and spent a night in Paradise. As you'll see in the photos below, Rod's building skills are equal to his firefighting abilities. He's a tough, smart, open-hearted, humble man who'll no-doubt be embarrassed at being called "legendary," but everyone else says that's the word for him. Get a copy of Rod's book!

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Theme Music: Basin and Range/Carsie Blanton. Featured song: Nostalgia, by James Thomas (Before the Light).

134 - David Steinberg (Sexuality Author/Photographer)

David Steinberg is an author, photographer, and radically sane guy. We talk about his inadvertent work with the CIA, what it was like to be plugged into the anti-war political world of San Francisco in the late 60s, and his lifelong refusal to accept shame as a sensible response to human sexuality. Join us in Portland's Laurelhurst Park for this wide-ranging, intimate conversation. Download this episode.

Music:

Opening theme: Basin and Range.

Kim Churchill, "Don't Leave Your Life Too Long." iTunes link.

Closing theme: Carsie Blanton, "Smoke Alarm."

133 - Sonya Lea (Wondering Who You Are)

In their 23rd year of marriage, Sonya's husband, Richard, suffered a brain trauma that erased his memories of their life together. He didn't know her, didn't recognize their children, and had to re-learn how to live his life. He'd forgotten everything—even sex.

An excerpt from her book on Salon.com. Get Wondering Who You Are at Amazon.

Music. "Flag" by Ed Dupas, "Love" by James Thomas & "Smoke Alarm" by Carsie Blanton.

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130 - Devlin Baker (Fusion Researcher)

In the lab.

In the lab.

For just an instant, Devlin Baker created a tiny star in a warehouse outside Bellingham, WA. He's working on a project he (and his backers) hope will result in medical technology, the production of vital materials, and eventually, cheap, clean, limitless energy. Download this episode. Visit Devlin's site.

Opening Theme: Brightside of the Sun, by Basin and Range.

Closing song: Zirconium Fire, by Dwayne Hoover.

 

129 - Kevin Johnson 2 (Musician/Cave Explorer)

Kevin and his wife, Carol near Austin.

Kevin and his wife, Carol near Austin.

Before/After shot of that same river showing the crazy floods they had recently.

Before/After shot of that same river showing the crazy floods they had recently.

Kevin Johnson is a key player in the growing floatation movement. He owns the Zero Gravity Institute in Austin, TX, where he designs, sells, and installs the most innovative float chambers around. But he's also a very accomplished musician, songwriter, and cave explorer. Talk about a multi-faceted mofo! Download this episode.

128 - Bailey Jay (Transwoman)

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Bailey Jay is a trans woman who is a pornographic actress, adult model, cutting-edge thinker, and podcaster. She's very smart, very funny, and pretty much my kinda girl. She's a regular on Jim Norton's show on Sirius XM, and was recently featured on Inside Amy Schumer. Download this episode. 

Bailey's porn site (NSFW). Her blog (SFW).

Here's a scoldy, tiresome piece in Slate about the interview with Amy Schumer, but at least it includes the video so you can decide for yourself whether it's offensive or not.

Music: Tok Tok Tok, Albert Pla.

125 - Brian Bao (Emergency Medicine)

Captain Dan, Shaku, and my buddy Sean in the lake at Pokhara, Nepal.

Captain Dan, Shaku, and my buddy Sean in the lake at Pokhara, Nepal.

Brian's the kind of guy who gets a PhD while taking a rest from getting an MD—and makes it all look easy. He's currently a resident in emergency medicine at Oregon Health & Science University in Portland. If I ever get loaded into an ambulance, I hope Brian's there to greet me at the end of that ride. Download this episode.

Music: Jet Airline (Steve Miller Band), Dream Time In Lake Jackson (The KLF Chill Out), The Ballad Of Cher Shimjer (Paul Peña), Smoke Alarm (Carsie Blanton).

123 - Elle Stanger (Exotic dancer)

Elle Stanger is a stripper/sex worker/exotic dancer/intimacy therapist/political activist/tattoo fancier. She's busy. And smart, funny, and sexy as all get-out. Download.

An When I Die (The Dirtydirty Dollars).

                The image that sparked this conversation.

                The image that sparked this conversation.

122 - Nikki Glaser (Comic)

Show Notes:

Unreleased Background (The Beach Boys)

Alibi (James Thomas)

Smoke Alarm (Carsie Blanton)

Dr. John Sarno (back pain doctor).

Ulcer story.

The Magic Wand.

James Prescott's article on the origins of violence.

Sarah Silverman's TED controversy.

Joseph Campbell.

Nikki Glaser is a New York based stand-up comic who headlines at clubs all over North America, and has a project in development at Comedy Central. She's found a way to laugh at her deepest fears. Plus, she wipes her ass with facewipes and her dentist gives her brain orgasms. Download this episode.

121 - Murphy Pelot (He's "about 13 and a half.")

Old soul...

Old soul...

Some links from the conversation (thanks, dkbose):

* 180° South Documentary
http://www.imdb.com/title/tt14...

* Origins Documentary : 
http://topdocumentaryfilms.com...

* Babies documentary : 
http://www.imdb.com/title/tt10...

* A Short History of Progress by Ronald Wright
https://www.goodreads.com/book...

* The Collapse of Western Civilization: A View from the Future by Naomi Oreskes, Erik M. Conway
https://www.goodreads.com/book...

* A Tale of Two Cities by Charles Dickens
https://www.goodreads.com/book...

* Walden by Henry David Thoreau : 
https://www.goodreads.com/book...

Murphy's my bud. He's "about 13 and a half" and has more going on in his head than most people twice his age. If our species has a future worth living, it'll be because people like Murphy pulled us back from the brink. Download this episode.

Music:

"Storm," by Brian Aspell.

"Guaranteed," by Eddie Vedder. Here's a video of Eddie Vedder performing the song.

"Society," by Jerry Hannan, performed by Eddie Vedder. Some amazing videos of the song being performed here, here, and here. Purchase the songs or the whole soundtrack to "Into the Wild" on iTunes.

120 - Magnus Sullivan (Erotic Film Director)

Magnus and Cassie sporting their amazing Tangentially Speaking shirts!

Magnus and Cassie sporting their amazing Tangentially Speaking shirts!

Magnus is the creator of Marriage 2.0, a revolutionary feature film that treats explicit sexuality as an intrinsic part of the characters' lives, without resorting to worn out pornification. We discuss the challenges of trying to make erotic art for smart people in a market geared toward mindlessness.

Here's a recent interview with Magnus in Salon.com.

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Song: Thinking About Tomorrow (by Tom Parkes).

On set with the legendary Nina Hartley (see the archives for my conversation with Nina).

On set with the legendary Nina Hartley (see the archives for my conversation with Nina).

With one of the stars of Marriage 2.0, India Summer.

With one of the stars of Marriage 2.0, India Summer.

118 - Frans de Waal (Primatologist)

With Frans and Cacilda in Barcelona.

With Frans and Cacilda in Barcelona.

My favorite photo of Frans.

My favorite photo of Frans.

From his TED profile:

Dr. Frans B. M. de Waal is a biologist and primatologist known for his work on the behavior and social intelligence of primates. His first book, Chimpanzee Politics (1982), compared the schmoozing and scheming of chimpanzees involved in power struggles with that of human politicians. Ever since, de Waal has drawn parallels between primate and human behavior, from peacemaking and morality to culture. His scientific work has been published in hundreds of technical articles in journals such as Science, Nature, Scientific American, and outlets specialized in animal behavior. His popular books – translated into fifteen languages – have made him one of the world’s most visible primatologists. His latest books are Our Inner Ape (2005, Riverhead) and The Age of Empathy (2009, Harmony).

De Waal is C. H. Candler Professor in the Psychology Department of Emory University and Director of the Living Links Center at the Yerkes National Primate Center, in Atlanta. He has been elected to the National Academy of Sciences (US), the American Academy of Arts and Sciences, and the Royal Dutch Academy of Sciences. In 2007, he was selected by Time as one of The Worlds’ 100 Most Influential People Today, and in 2011 by Discover as among 47 (all time) Great Minds of Science.

117 - Chris Jaymes (second visit)

Goofy-faced motherfucker. That's me in the mirror.

Goofy-faced motherfucker. That's me in the mirror.

Chris is a native of Hollywood. He's a filmmaker, writer, and musician. His latest project is about the healing potential of dolphins. Download. Here's a video of Bootstraps playing Oh California.